I would be going back home for the weekends. And although one really needs no excuse or reason to go home, it’s with the thought of celebrating my grandmother’s birthday this weekend that all activities save badminton for the weekends here have to be cancelled. Initially the celebration was to be on a big scale, but for some reasons (which I deem preposterously lame), some uncles/aunties thought the occasion unsuitable to be celebrated. Fine, I’d be home to see ah mak with everyone else on her birthday then.
A chat with my aunt revealed that the reason we’d be home is to celebrate a cousin’s 21st birthday, not grandmum’s. Our eldest uncle would be back next year from Canada, so we’d be celebrating her birthday then. Grandma's going to live forever I'm made to believe.
Huh?! Since when did all the uncles, aunties and cousins concertedly came back to celebrate anyone’s birthday when it was not organized by the birthday person him/herself? Well, they all did for my 21st, which was organized by my parents. Anyway, it was noble indeed. That’s ok, though I would have returned for MEFC’s Anniversary last Sunday instead; two weekends away from here is walking away from many things and responsibilities. Anyway…
I was upset for many reasons. Well, maybe still am. It was first made known that everyone was to return to celebrate grandmother’s birthday. Then it was said that we’d not be observing it as a celebration, but we’d be having a steamboat. Next came in my cousin’s 21st birthday celebration which I just heard about, hours before driving back to Malacca. I hope they'd cook up another reason to spice things up, although as I’ve said, one needs no reason at all for being back.
‘Disappointed?,’ asked my aunt, uncannily reading my mind.
Thinking of a reply, I said, ‘well, it doesn’t matter the occasion. We should have more reunions.’